Why Women Cheat

I have done some light researched and decided to tackle the subject of why women cheat! We all know me are dogs as I explained in one of my earlier post but what makes you woman cheat and why are they so dam good at it! lol  Here are a couple reasons why...

1. Change has Come

"If it is graduating from an educational institution, turning a certain age, losing a parent or advancing the relationship status to another level, women become introspective," which is a fancy way to say they are looking deeply into their own thoughts and feelings. We already know that women are the pioneers of over thinking things so going through a life transition makes this attribute more frequently abundant. Even if it is something she wants, such as just getting engaged or graduating, the transition can stir up an array of emotions about where her life is going. The discomfort of change can trigger an impulsive desire to find someone to take her focus off the change and be a diversion for what she is going through whether it be positive or negative. Yeah know women are strange creatures lol 

2. Under Appreciated 

Even as men we have all been here where we don't feel appreciated in the way we want. For women it may be getting a promotion on the job, organizing a fundraiser, or making a holiday dinner for a party of 20, us men often make the misstep and fall victim to downplaying our woman's achievements no matter how tiny or big. Women seek an emotional connection that their partner notices them, is proud of their achievements, and appreciates what they do, so when they aren’t getting this at home the residual effects lead to feelings of frustration, dissatisfaction, depression, and restlessness. That's why I always preach the motto to the fellas that is doesn't cost to pay attention.

Now I don't have to be a rocket scientist or love guru to tell you that when the appreciate isn't felt at home that  that's when they could go looking for it elsewhere. When you are living in the day to day with someone, it is challenging to step outside a situation and notice the things that do matter to someone. As this wears down over time, so as soon as the woman encounters someone who ignites the spark they are lacking at home, they equate it to an emotional connection and seek companionship with someone else. "Ya man don't send ya flowers" or "if I was your man I would appreciate your effort" these are sample lines men shoot at woman in relationships and if your not doing the same, then it could turn against you and she will slide with someone else! 

3. Feeling The Relationship Ending 

When a woman feels that uneasy sense that a relationship is on the outs, by either her doing or his, she will often look to fill the void externally to soften the blow, there are no reasons for a woman's infidelity but If she is the one considering the breakup, she may be using this tactic as a challenge to herself both testing the waters, and then gauge if she can go through with it. One thing about her, she is not going to leave the nest cold turkey, I believe a woman always have at least two potential prospects on deck be for she 100 percent leaves the relationship. 

4. Smiles turning to Frowns

But it's too hard to pull the plug because of the history. She don’t laugh, she don’t love. Laughter is one of the key elements in a relationship that often gets overlooked. When stresses of day to day life become the dominant factor in a relationship, women feel unhappy. When they come across a coworker, or friend that they have a good time with, it suddenly brings to light what is missing in their own relationship and becomes tempting to act upon. Hence the term I don't want my women sniggling and giggling with nobody!! lol

5. Sex Life Joking 

Men aren't the only ones who need to spice things up and "turn up" in the bedroom! Women need to feel desired and wanted! You don't have to always have her climbing the walls, u should...but If she is not getting any, enough, or nothing to talk about, women start to feel a sexual void. Ohhh shit you don't want that!! With the popularity of books such as Fifty Shades of Grey, television shows, or listening to friends talk about their fun single trysts, women have that moment when they compare their love life at home to what the rest of the world seems to be experiencing. And that's when she may start to wonder what she's missing. RED LIGHT FELLAS

Though it is easy to pinpoint the flaws in one's sex life, it is often hard to make the changes needed to correct them. This creates a temptation in women to seek sexual satisfaction elsewhere with someone they don’t have the "baggage" with and can be more loose as they say! 

*Or the most common answer can be She Ain't Shit! Because we know some people cheat because they can get away with it or they are just unfaithful people lol
Idk why women cheat because clearly Im not a woman but I hope my fellas pay attention and understand woman are the greatest cheaters of our time and just like a man you can stop a person for doing whatever it is the "want" to do.  SO good luck out there!!

Bed Room Lies (18 and Up)

"My...my...my" the things we say in the heat of the moment! Everybody has done it, and some probably more than others. When caught up in hot, passionate moments your brain and what comes out of your mouth are almost simataniously connected as you have no filter! In many cases the truth comes out during sex, as well as lies told to make your mate feel better. This is something i have not been a fan of and both men and women are notorious for it! Women been faking orgasism for years, but why? Believe it or not as big as our egos are as men..some egos bigger than the actual package..what women say to a man really affects the way he thinks. My goal is to expose these Bedroom Lies and decode them for what they really mean!

I surveyed 50 men and women to come up with this list...

1.Men love to ask the question "Who's Pussy Is This"! Fellas be very care full as this is the most deadly assumption to make when she say "YOURS"! Ladies when a man has asked you who pussy is was have you ever said someone else's name. Probably not. Has it been somebody else other than the person you giving it too, prob so. This is the biggest lie to tell a man as the answer will never change. It really means, your who Im fucking today but tomorrow

2.Its Sooo big!! Really? Imma leave this one alone

3. Your the best I Ever Had..Weeew men and women guilty of this one! how many times have you heard this one, you cant be everybody best, it should be changed to your the best right now!

4. Its Good..This is the lie that got men and women thinking they are Gods gift to the bedroom. Id rather you only speak on this when it is not good because everybody is not sexually connected. This one is randomly exaggerated to lift ones confidence.

5. I love you...Hmmmm I don't know about this one! I'm not going to dissect peoples feelings but I think this really is playing with fire. Many people pick sex as the time to tell their partner they love them for the first time as they feel its an intimate moment to be in your feelings. In my opinion I think you should let a person know how you feel eye to eye before you say it during sex. This can cause problems down the line if you say I love you too and didnt mean it because you were caught in the heat of passion and climax.

6. The Head is Fie..aka you give good head...Smh at this one. This is usually told to not hurt the other persons feelings hoping that they improve. if the head is that good you can tell by the way his/her body reacts or whether or not they climax like crazy! Men are most notorious for this because we dont want to discourage our partner from trying as this is a skill that takes practice. Another one that if your good at you know you are!! LOL

The bottom line is if the sex is all that, your partners actions would be so.Everybody knows what being "whupped" is like and a persons actions will support that. Its not yours and he or she doesnt love you if they are with someone else. Bedroom lies are responsible for large egos, stalkers, rumors, and bad relationships build on bullshit. What kills me is when the relationship turns sour, then the truth comes out, when it should have been out from the get go!!