Why Women Cheat

I have done some light researched and decided to tackle the subject of why women cheat! We all know me are dogs as I explained in one of my earlier post but what makes you woman cheat and why are they so dam good at it! lol  Here are a couple reasons why...

1. Change has Come

"If it is graduating from an educational institution, turning a certain age, losing a parent or advancing the relationship status to another level, women become introspective," which is a fancy way to say they are looking deeply into their own thoughts and feelings. We already know that women are the pioneers of over thinking things so going through a life transition makes this attribute more frequently abundant. Even if it is something she wants, such as just getting engaged or graduating, the transition can stir up an array of emotions about where her life is going. The discomfort of change can trigger an impulsive desire to find someone to take her focus off the change and be a diversion for what she is going through whether it be positive or negative. Yeah know women are strange creatures lol 

2. Under Appreciated 

Even as men we have all been here where we don't feel appreciated in the way we want. For women it may be getting a promotion on the job, organizing a fundraiser, or making a holiday dinner for a party of 20, us men often make the misstep and fall victim to downplaying our woman's achievements no matter how tiny or big. Women seek an emotional connection that their partner notices them, is proud of their achievements, and appreciates what they do, so when they aren’t getting this at home the residual effects lead to feelings of frustration, dissatisfaction, depression, and restlessness. That's why I always preach the motto to the fellas that is doesn't cost to pay attention.

Now I don't have to be a rocket scientist or love guru to tell you that when the appreciate isn't felt at home that  that's when they could go looking for it elsewhere. When you are living in the day to day with someone, it is challenging to step outside a situation and notice the things that do matter to someone. As this wears down over time, so as soon as the woman encounters someone who ignites the spark they are lacking at home, they equate it to an emotional connection and seek companionship with someone else. "Ya man don't send ya flowers" or "if I was your man I would appreciate your effort" these are sample lines men shoot at woman in relationships and if your not doing the same, then it could turn against you and she will slide with someone else! 

3. Feeling The Relationship Ending 

When a woman feels that uneasy sense that a relationship is on the outs, by either her doing or his, she will often look to fill the void externally to soften the blow, there are no reasons for a woman's infidelity but If she is the one considering the breakup, she may be using this tactic as a challenge to herself both testing the waters, and then gauge if she can go through with it. One thing about her, she is not going to leave the nest cold turkey, I believe a woman always have at least two potential prospects on deck be for she 100 percent leaves the relationship. 

4. Smiles turning to Frowns

But it's too hard to pull the plug because of the history. She don’t laugh, she don’t love. Laughter is one of the key elements in a relationship that often gets overlooked. When stresses of day to day life become the dominant factor in a relationship, women feel unhappy. When they come across a coworker, or friend that they have a good time with, it suddenly brings to light what is missing in their own relationship and becomes tempting to act upon. Hence the term I don't want my women sniggling and giggling with nobody!! lol

5. Sex Life Joking 

Men aren't the only ones who need to spice things up and "turn up" in the bedroom! Women need to feel desired and wanted! You don't have to always have her climbing the walls, u should...but If she is not getting any, enough, or nothing to talk about, women start to feel a sexual void. Ohhh shit you don't want that!! With the popularity of books such as Fifty Shades of Grey, television shows, or listening to friends talk about their fun single trysts, women have that moment when they compare their love life at home to what the rest of the world seems to be experiencing. And that's when she may start to wonder what she's missing. RED LIGHT FELLAS

Though it is easy to pinpoint the flaws in one's sex life, it is often hard to make the changes needed to correct them. This creates a temptation in women to seek sexual satisfaction elsewhere with someone they don’t have the "baggage" with and can be more loose as they say! 

*Or the most common answer can be She Ain't Shit! Because we know some people cheat because they can get away with it or they are just unfaithful people lol
Idk why women cheat because clearly Im not a woman but I hope my fellas pay attention and understand woman are the greatest cheaters of our time and just like a man you can stop a person for doing whatever it is the "want" to do.  SO good luck out there!!

Not on Your Time

Not on your time

Dam baby girl your heart was once mine
Feel like you owe me rent the way you stay on mind
The love we shared together, wen separate I couldnt find
Im tired of them games Im done with the lies..

  Not on your time

Okay I understand but how much time you need
Im not gone wait forever baby trust n believe
That the bullshit I pulled last time will no longer be
Ive changed Im a better man Wat u dont love me?

 Not on your time

So wat you gotta another lover who when and where
Hell I aint jealous or nothing shoot I dont even care
I deserve at 8th chance you just not being fair
Cn you with somebody else is something I cant bare

  Not on your time

Well fuck ya I dont need you I got plenty of dimes
They beating down my door look like a First Friday line
So you dont want me back think Im gone be cryn
I aint gone beg ya bih...FINE

  Not on Your Time

Baby Im so sorry y u not answering my calls
I didnt mean to trip I was on that alcohol
Id rather be your friend then you not speak to me at all
Please except my apology this is something two grown ups can resolve

  Not on your time

I respect ya mind and Im going to give you your space
Its not on my time so yours I shouldnt waist
My future actions will do the talking 2 put a smile on your face
So wen your ready I will be here to take your breath away
You can fall in love twice its the chance Im ready to take
Im not a perfect man mistakes Im going to make
but I love you..so until its my time again I will wait.

                           --Prennuss Kutta

The Dog House

"All Men All Dogs" is a term that has passed through generation to generation. I guess it means that all men either cheat or need to have ore than one women and will put their penis anywhere. The whole cheating is cheating or once a cheater always a cheater mind set, lets through that mentality out the window for a second and look at the assumptions alone. The mind set has created a stereo type of the male species that has been judgmental but excepted in society. In some cases has cause some women to completely convert to being lesbians based on bad experiences with men. R. Kelly said it best, "One man can make One women hate All Men". Anyway, I'm going to dissect this principle based on the theory that all men are dogs or all men cheat instead of debating the fact whether men are dogs or not. Now I don't believe all men cheat and lie but I'm going to play into women's hands and heads on this one. Women need men and men need women so how do you break down the good guys from the bad guys if they "all" are dogs. Well, lets look at actual dogs. You have good dogs, bad dogs, watch dogs, police dogs, mutts (mix breeds), show dogs, race dogs,and family dogs..all different sizes and coats. I'm just going to use three categories to explore and that is the Good Dog..Bad Dog..and the Lame Dog. Now again, this is my interpretation based on my manly opinion. I'm no expert but I'm a man so it warrants enough experience to be able to narrow the field for you ladies because lets face it, "all men are dogs" is not going to stop male and female mating so lets just get real!

Lets Start off with the BAD DOG...hahahha the King of Em All..

The bad dog is a man that walks by his own creed and really has no respect or remorse for his actions. Lies come off as the truth and dreams are given away to anyone who will believe them. A lot of their moves are based on the physical and the fun of having a plethora of women.This breed of dog with sleep with you best friend, sister, auntie,co worker, hair stylist, etc..with no guilt. Apparently this type of dog continues to be a popular choice of good girls because of the edge they natural reflect on their prey (ladies). The bad dog will take you to the mall, say he has to use the bathroom just to go use the phone or holla at another girl he seen walk by. When with another girl, the bad dog will not answer his phone nor call when coming home late. The bad dog doesn't help pay bills, take his women out to dinner or anything that doesn't lead to sex. He may drive your car in the ground, don't clean around the house, eat up all ya kids snacks, or even worst give you an Bad dogs usually are aggressive and skilled in the sexual category which allows them to continue there domination over the mind of the female. Bad dogs have multiple children and baby mothers. When it comes to the kids they may take care of a couple, may be dead beat to some, and may have unpaid child support to the others! This breed is in the fore front of the "all men are dogs" concept because lets admit it there are a lot of BAD DOGS out there but they don't define all males! Often owners say "bad dog..no no" but often the ladies are more like "I can change him" or "I love him doe" or "Y'all don't understand, he love me, them others girls just sex". LOL yeah it sounds and looks just as dumb as it felt as you read it just now. But what can you say without Bad Dogs the game would be so fulfilling when you find a winner would it?

GOOD DOG

Now before I get into the good dog remember all these examples are based on the principle that all men are dogs. The good dog is a man that has respect and accountability for his actions. A good dog is discreet in his dealings with other women to protect the innocent, if that makes sense to you. For example a Good Dog would never go behind your back and try to holla at one of your friends and understands that there are lines that you don't cross. They respect these rules even when they are not in a relationship with a women and they just have a casual connection. You cannot attach the word messy with this breed as they are loyal to the ones they care for. Good dogs are if the feelings  neutral through the females loyalty the perfect boyfriend type and can easily be converted into the good guy category. But yes there is a but, a good dog still flirts and has female friends on deck that honor his discreetness. A good dog will never disrespect you in public and will treat you like a queen if deserving. Meaning he will take you out on dates, show public affection, introduce you to his parents, and really care about a woman and her feelings..he just hasn't cut off all his ladies. Good dogs will pay bills, spoil their loyal ladie , take care of their children and have all the husband characteristics needed for a women. you prob wonder why I keep saying the word loyal. its because a good dog will shut down and minimize other ladies if he find a girl that's worth it and is not on plays herself. A good dog will answer his phone and wont give hi girl any reason to feel insecure or unwanted. This is where another difference between good and bad dog comes into play as a bad dog don't give a dam and will use a woman's loyalty against her to do what the hell he want to do. Ladies, when get heart broken by a good dog, often label these guys in the same category as the Bad Dog as they feel all dogs are the same but that's a big misconception where as the Good dog is some good and the bad dog ain't sh*t! Some may say when the Good Dog gets caught up it hurts the most, but due to the good dogs respect the cases a far but few and often turn out to be quality men to their women. Once again I'm basing this all the statement that ALL MEN ARE DOGS so open your mind to conceal what I'm explaining.

Last but not Least the Lame Dog

This is the most faithful dog of them all but is the reason good and bad dogs have the upper hand with women. The lame dog can easily be name the Watch dog, Puppy Dog, Loud Dog, Annoying Dog. The lame dog is like that small dog that is just biting your ankles all the time or begging for attention at the very moment you want to be alone. This is more of a pet than a dog as this dog will stay at home a base his whole life around yours and y'all aren't even together! He don't like to go out, no club, no party, no movies..doesn't like to dress up, doe not go out with the fellas, just work and come home (nothing wrong with that). He is a predictable dog that is going to call at the same time everyday, wear the same cloths, make love the same way, but he is financially secure and wants a girlfriend. He will blow up your phone, and if you don't answer he will call your friends, that's just because you went to the store. He is a crazy dog, very controlling, but at the same tie very naive as its easy to pull the wool over his eyes as he doesn't know the party scene. Sexually he is not very adventurous but he doesn't cheat. he is open and honest and you have his phone codes, you know everything so there really is no excitement. Sometimes you wish you can have something to argue about and when you do he apologizes even when you were the one doing wrong. You can break up with him because you cant find a reason too but you are just not happy.

In my opinion I think women need someone to keep them on their toes! A man that may not cheat but has the potential too. The man that another women wants to give you some sense of competition. I have learned that women need that because they are constantly in competition with other women..cloths..shoes..eye lashes (men didn't ask for those by the way) so psychologically women want men to be dogs in a way. You don't want a "perfect man" because he becomes lame after while. Women sub conscience want to find something when they go through your phone because if its too clean they gone think your hiding something any way lol. Its the balance of making a women feel wanted and making her feel motivated to keep you at the same time.

At the end of the day when a man is ready to commit he will point, blank, period. You may think you can reform or train a dog which is possible but this has to be done befor he learns the game, during his early puppy stages. You heard the term you cant teach an old dog new tricks right? I like how I can just put them worlds together dont you lol. Back to business.. You can mold a dog just like men mold their women but that is another Blog Post. Please dont be afraid to comment and add any insight on the topic. Remember nodody is perfect, you just need to find the person that is perfect for you! #RealRap